Wednesday, January 7, 2009

No longer amusing, mostly contemptible

Married Guy at work grosses me out. On the one hand he's giving me the typical line that his wife isn't coming down here to live, etc., and that it's better this way. So once he's tired of flirting with me and leaves, I go snooping.

From all I can judge from a handful of emails, his wife certainly doesn't seem to think the marriage is in trouble. Full of "love you"s and "miss you"s and at the same time he's getting the same kinds of messages from his girlfriend.

He saw me waiting for the elevator and actually caught me by the elbow just to say hello. Oh, hell no, Mr VP. Don't invade my personal space. Don't you dare. I just looked at his hand and didn't say anything until he let go. Now that I know what to look for, this guy definitely likes the challenge, the stalking and the hunt, and most likely gets bored after the kill. Scumbag.

Jackass.

Does a guy like this even realize how many lives this could potentially ruin if it got out? Why don't they care?

1 comment:

Brown Eyed Girl said...

I worked with a VP like this and he got "caught" with the chick in the office - mostly because I was the Operations/HR Manager and found some of their e-mails. They both were/are married with kids and it was not good. He lost his job. She eventually quit and a lot of people's lives are now very different!

They really don't seem to care!

I would call him out on it. I would just say you don't play those kinds of games!