I just don't understand !!!

ok, I just don't understand it, and if any of you can give me an explanation I will gladly listen.
First let it be know, I do not "sleep around" as Kelly Clarkson says ' I do not hook up" At 41 years old, I can count on both hands and a few toes how many men i have slept with. So the following events are not my "style' by any means.

I met A online, attraction at first sight !!! Our first meeting was me going over to his house and hanging with him and his daughter, who is awesome. Yes I know.... meeting the child the first time you met him?? WTH. But she is with him 90% of the time so in this situation it was if you are dating him, you are dating them.
Now all of you know I want to get married and have kids, so this actually does not bother me in the least....... We had a great day, I went home.
2nd date................ long story short, I spend the night............. iknow, prob not smart. But there was total chemistry. I am 41 he is 48, we are grown ups.
Tells me as i am leaving he totally wants to see me next weekend.
3rd Date. Once again great time. Next morning he is making me coffee and waffles and talking about getting my goddaughters and his daughter together for a playdate soon. All going merrily along right !!!!!

Monday comes and by IM----- I am told "we have to talk, it is not you, its me. I can't do this. I don't see you as long term........" WTF just happened?????? Someone PLEASE tell me!!!!!!!!
if I was just a HOOKUP, I doubt he would have told me the magnatude of personal information about himself, and was willing to leave me alone in his house while he went to the store.
Anyone help with this??????

7 months

I've been dating the Captain for 7 months and I have to say, I'm no closer to wanting to live with anyone or get married than I was before we started dating. As much as I love him and love being with him, I am still really attached to my own autonomy.

Which makes good sense considering he's "comittment-phobic" anyway. He talks the talk but doesn't walk the walk. I'm not planning on going anywhere since we're still having a good time, but never, ever let anyone tell you that men aren't as moody as women are.

hmmmmmm and they resurface again.....

my chiropractor hookup has seemed to resurfaced..............................

here we go again

well cupcake didn't work out as planned so let the blogging begin again.....
Sorry I have been MIA, but the was a pretty hard hit when it didn't work out !!!
ME