Friday, December 12, 2008

Okay, okay, I already said I was clueless

Guy #1 said that he wanted to pick me up for our date Saturday night so it would be, like, a real actual date. Since I'm weird and paranoid I said that was incredibly sweet, but it would just be easier for me to meet him there.

It isn't that I have a problem with him picking me up, I thought it was gentlemanly and it secretly made me all warm and fuzzy. He has a nice car, so it's not like I'm afraid to drive in a junker. But it's still just the second date, and I just can't give up my sense of being able to get in my car at any minute and leave should the date go south. Plus the fact that I don't know if this early on I want him knowing where I live.

Plus, what if it *did* go south? If he had to drive me home, that would be really awkward. So I'm hedging my bets.

Would that have hurt his feelings? Bruised his manly ego? Put him in a snit that I don't trust him? Hmm. I doubt it, but you never know. Ergo, I meet him there.

2 comments:

Brown Eyed Girl said...

I would definitely meet him there! Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Lucky you, though, 2nd date!

Witty and Mildly Jaded said...

at some point you have to let him pick you up hahaha