Witty and Mildly Jaded

Welcome to the Blog, I started it, but you will meet plenty of my girlfriends soon !!!!!

About me, I am 40 and have recently found myself single again after about a year and a half. I was thinking I was heading in the direction of moving in with the man I was in love with. Then I was told " I am not in love with you, and I am not as attracted to you physically or romatically as I should be..." Soooooooooooooo..... I am still in my apt. in the city, and have been thrown rather roughly back into the "wonderful world of dating"

I am attractive, I have been told that by enough men in my life to actually believe it. I am witty and smart. I own my own business, and I am great at what I do. I have done my fair share of dating, and have been lucky enough to have had some long term relationships. I even have the much needed "gay husband".

I have rejoined Match, Yahoo Personals, and Plenty of Fish. Gotta get back in the swing of things ya know.......It is just really hard. I was pretty happy in my relationship, I liked being in one, (sadly it seems I am the only one) But I refuse to dwell on what is done, ( or the fact the bastard was a lying cheating pig) I will not become the angry bitter woman.I have had two dates since my breakup before Thanksgiving, and another one tomorrow. Dating is HARD, you feel like you are doing first interviews over and over again. Luckily alot of my girls are in the same boat, so we a rowing through the waters together......

Date 1- Friday night, Friend of a Friend who recently moved to town. He is also now currently single ( his breakup was 6 weeks ago) We had a great time, and a terrific dinner. Spent most of the dinner comparing breakup notes.................. it was almost funny. I think he will end up as a guy I hang out with vs a guy I date.

Date 2- today. Actually a guy I casually dated a few years ago and have remained friends with. He felt pretty bad about me getting dumped right at the holidays............. Spent a a great afternoon at the High Museum seeing the Terra Cotta Warriors.

ok I guess this wraps my first blog. I look forward to sharing my future adventures.....
WMJ