Friday, December 12, 2008

Okay, okay, I already said I was clueless

Guy #1 said that he wanted to pick me up for our date Saturday night so it would be, like, a real actual date. Since I'm weird and paranoid I said that was incredibly sweet, but it would just be easier for me to meet him there.

It isn't that I have a problem with him picking me up, I thought it was gentlemanly and it secretly made me all warm and fuzzy. He has a nice car, so it's not like I'm afraid to drive in a junker. But it's still just the second date, and I just can't give up my sense of being able to get in my car at any minute and leave should the date go south. Plus the fact that I don't know if this early on I want him knowing where I live.

Plus, what if it *did* go south? If he had to drive me home, that would be really awkward. So I'm hedging my bets.

Would that have hurt his feelings? Bruised his manly ego? Put him in a snit that I don't trust him? Hmm. I doubt it, but you never know. Ergo, I meet him there.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I would definitely meet him there! Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Lucky you, though, 2nd date!

Anonymous said...

at some point you have to let him pick you up hahaha